If you feel like you made a mistake or if your friend just suddenly acted differently, approach and talk to them nicely. Make sure that the timing is right; your friend is in a good condition, there's not much school work going on, etcetera.
2. Talk with your friend
Once you approached them and they agree to talk things out with you, start asking and talking. Once your friend is engaged in the conversation, listen out to her thoughts and feelings. Try to understand each other's point of view and if possible, don't explode easily and calm down while you're talking. Speak the truth even if it hurts because it's much better to be hurt with the truth than sugarcoated with a lie.
3. Forgive and forget
After the hard talking, apologize to each other and forget the mistakes. It's the past after all, it's better to forget it and leave it behind than keeping it with you as a grudge.
4. Learn from your mistakes
Problem solved! All you now have to do is learn from your mistakes. Try to be a better person and don't repeat the same mistakes. Be a better person :)
Hope this helps!
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